Tantric Massage
Simple Touches
The first stage of Tantric massage is to spend up to an hour simply touching your partner avoiding any touch of the genitals or breasts. A gentle touch along the limbs and back helps your partner to relax. Indeed, most couples spend the first hour touching each other in turn. You can do this laying down together to aid in the relaxation process. Facing each other during this stage of massage also helps to increase the intimacy between partners.
During the gentle massage, stare into each others eyes and take deep breaths in synchronization. One partner should breath out while the other breaths in. This allows for one partner’s energy to transfer into the other and back again. By the time this stage of the massage is finishing, both partners should be absolutely relaxed and in tune with each other.
Tantric Massage Techniques
The techniques used in Tantric massage vary by the individual. The second stage of massage is simply touching the genitals with a focus on increasing and feeling the energy of sexuality rather than release. Indeed working to prolong or even avoid an orgasm is a crucial part of Tantric massage and Tantric sex.
Position the partner receiving the massage to be lying on a pillow to raise the genital region. His or her head should be elevated as well to ensure he or she can see what is happening during the massage. This increases the connection between partners and the overall experience.
Tantric Massage for Her
For her, the Tantric massage should include a gentle massage and exploration of the vagina, or Yoni. Start with the outer lips of the Yoni using your fingers and hands to explore various techniques of touching. Eventually, move on to the inner lips of the Yoni. Take your time and work hard to feel the transfer of energy from your fingers into her body.
Finally spend time massaging her clitoris taking care to avoid climax. Encourage deep breathing and focus. Throughout the process stare deeply into her eyes and attempt to continue breathing in synchronized breaths. After a time, use the middle finger of your right hand to reach inside the Yoni for her G-spot. This is a spongy spot of tissue about the size of a quarter on the top of the vaginal wall (if she’s on her back.)
Massage her G-spot while continuing to massage her clitoris. Use your left hand to gently massage other parts of her body while bringing her closer to an ultimate release. The experience will be profound and likely cause a deep state of relaxation and even sleep.
Tantric Massage for Him
The male Tantric massage focuses on the entire pelvic region including the penis, or Lingam. Begin by massaging the testicles in a gentle fashion. Move on to the area above his shaft between the hip bones. Massage this area without touching his Lingam. Move again to the perineum or area between the testicles and anus. Finally, you will begin to massage his shaft.
Start first by gently rubbing your hands upward from the base of the Lingam to the tip. Repeat this process slowly before switching and massaging down from the tip to the base. Next spend time gently massaging just the head of the shaft. Use a circular touch on this highly sensitive area.
Continue massaging the Lingam and tip working him toward orgasm. While massaging, use your fingers to explore the area between his anus and testicles for an indention the size of a pea. This small area is considered the male “sacred spot” and will increase the intensity of his orgasm when massaged and stimulated.